Ecclesiastes 3

Ecclesiastes 3 - Silence

Words are powerful. When words are spoken without self-control, they have the ability

to damage feelings, relationships and even people's lives. Remember how you were

told “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” as a kid?

Solomon gives us similar advice in Ecclesiastes.

Ecclesiastes 3:1,7

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens... a

time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak.

It’s important to learn when it’s the right time to speak and when it’s the right time to be

silent. The key to knowing the difference is rooted in wisdom and self-control. The

Bible teaches us to be quiet when we’re angry (James 1:19), tearing others down (Eph.

4:29), or belittling others (Proverbs 11:12). Silence is more powerful than speech when

it gives you time to replace anger with love. Next time you are losing control of your

temper and your words, stop and be silent. Take time to calm down and center yourself

in God’s love.

Prayer Prompt: Jesus, please help me to have self-control when I get angry or upset

with others. Remind me to quietly remove myself from the situation until I can approach

it with words that will glorify you.